Robert was in his early 20s when he moved out of his parents’ home in a country town and moved into university housing in Sydney, where he enrolled in an arts history degree. Being a student, he had to contend himself with a shared dorm room, but he was still very excited to be studying in a field he had felt passionately about for most of his life. (This article is electronically protected – Copyright © Associated Counsellors & Psychologists Sydney PTY LTD)
After a few months at university, Robert began to have problems. He started to keep his roommate, Greg, up for days at a time, writing and scribbling in his notebooks, mumbling to himself and then suddenly wanting to do strange things at odd hours, like rearrange the furniture in the middle of the night. Robert quickly went through all of the money that he and his parents had saved for the school term and he was having sex with any girl who would have him.
After several weeks of driving his roommate crazy with his actions, suddenly Robert felt the onset of a severe depression. He didn’t attend class at all. Instead, he stayed in bed and slept all the time. When he was awake, he felt like he had no future and that he was a worthless son and person. He was amazed to realise that he had no money left for the rest of the semester and he contemplated all the various ways he could kill himself and just be done with his whole miserable life.
Greg turned out to be a blessing of a roommate. He had a cousin who had similar problems to those he was seeing in Robert and he quickly identified Robert’s highs and lows as possible symptoms of Bipolar Disoder. (This article is electronically protected – Copyright © Associated Counsellors & Psychologists Sydney PTY LTD)
When Robert’s parents were alerted to the problem, they came to the university to take Robert out of class for the remainder of the semester and quickly arranged an appointment with a counsellor. The counsellor advised Robert to see a psychiatrist who was able to give Robert a proper diagnosis and trial medication to help stabilise his mood.
Robert continued to see his counsellor, who worked in conjunction with his psychiatrist to find the right medication balance and to keep him emotionally on track. Robert also spoke to a social worker who was able to help him, and his parents, understand the serious nature of bi-polar disorder and encouraged him to maintain an ongoing relationship with his counsellor so that his mood could be kept in check. (This article is electronically protected – Copyright © Associated Counsellors & Psychologists Sydney PTY LTD)
Over the course of the next year, Robert stopped and started his medications several times. He hated the way they made him feel and he hated the idea that he had this illness. When he would tell people he thought were his friends that he had a mental illness, he was shocked at their reactions and much of his counselling centered on helping him cope with accepting that he had a mental illness that he did not have to feel ashamed of.
With continued treatment and with the support of his family, Robert was eventually able to return to university and follow his dreams of being an art historian. Along with his studies, he continued to see a counsellor regularly to help him cope with the challenges that his illness presented, and he continued to see a psychiatrist to monitor and regulate his medications. Although it took him a year longer than other students, Robert was proud of his university accomplishments and even managed to graduate with a distinction average.