Anger doesn’t have to run the show. Turn the temperature down with counselling.

Anger isn’t the enemy. Unmanaged anger is.

Uncontrolled anger can lead to burnt bridges and words you can’t take back.

We’ll help you spot triggers, slow the surge, and thoughtfully choose what happens next.

With our experienced counsellors, you’ll learn practical tools you can use at home, at work, and in traffic – so you respond, not react.

Is your anger getting the better of you? We can help.

Anger management counselling is a proven way get your anger under control and build new ways to communicate at home and at work.  It can help you with:

Going from fine to furious in seconds

Learn a fast “pause” you can trust. Then add de-escalation and quick reset tools so you can step back before things boil over.

Snapping at the people you love

We’ll help you spot the patterns and lower the pressure. You’ll practise ways to be clear and firm without hurting the relationship.

Bottling it up until you explode

Your counsellor will work with you to identify what pushes your buttons and provide tools to safely release your frustration.  You’ll be able to respond to potential triggers without shutting down or losing it. 

Our registered psychologists and counsellors have been helping people manage their anger for over 25 years. They’ll work collaboratively with you using structured, evidence-based strategies to develop skills you put to use right away.

Reach out today.  We’re here to help, and it only takes one call.

Finding the Right Anger Management Counsellor


It can be hard to know where to start, but our streamlined matching process makes finding the right fit easy.

Personal match

Tell us about your loss and what you need. We’ll connect you with a counsellor who fits your preferences and pace.

Quick appointments, clear steps

Most people schedule their first session within a week. We’ll guide you through each step from first contact to first session.

Sydney & online

40+ Sydney locations to choose from or opt for an online session. Support options that fit your life.

Some of Our Practitioners

Sue
Registered Counsellor
Surry Hills or Online

Sue is a Masters-qualified counsellor who retrained after a successful career in design and recruitment. Compassionate and authentic, Sue supports individuals to better understand the interplay between their internal world and their external relationships.
Jonathan
Registered Counsellor
Norwest or Online

Jonathan is a tertiary-qualified counsellor with over 10 years experience working with adults and adolescents. Authentic and compassionate, Jonathan provides practical support to his clients, equipping them with the skills and capacity to be the very best version of themselves.
Dinah
Counsellor & Relationship Therapist
Sydney CBD or Online

Dinah is a degree-qualified counsellor with almost 10 years experience counselling both individuals and couples. Empathetic and optimistic, Dinah works in partnership with her clients, empowering them to bring about positive change and feel happier in their lives.
Justin
Mental Health Social Worker
Surry Hills or Online

Justin holds a Master of Psychotherapy and has over 15 years experience as a counsellor. Altruistic and compassionate, Justin works with adult individuals and adolescents to contextualise their concerns and guide them to achieving their goals.
Gaye
Counsellor & Relationship Therapist
Gymea or Online

Gaye holds an enviable number of tertiary qualifications in counselling including a Doctorate in Psychology. Passionate but empathetic, Gayes works with individuals and couples to equip them with the tools to overcome difficulties and live happier.
David
Clinical Psychologist
Stanhope Gardens or Online

David is a Masters-qualified Clinical Psychologist. Warm, authentic and non-judgemental, David supports his clients by carefully attuning to their needs, and imparting practical skills to build emotional insight, regulate emotions, improve capacity and sustain personal wellbeing.
Neera
Registered Psychotherapist
Surry Hills or Online

Neera is a Masters-qualified psychotherapist with over 20 years experience in the wellbeing space. Empathetic, thoughtful and highly intuitive, Neera works with individuals to strengthen their sense of self, and reshape long-standing behavioural and emotional patterns.
Jennifer
Counsellor & Relationship Therapist
Caste Hill & Online

Jennifer is a Masters-qualified counsellor with many years experience in safety and wellbeing. Collaborative and process-orientated, Jenny works with both individual and couples clients to develop healthier relationships with self and others.

Anger Management Counselling

Do you need Anger Management?

Most of us fly off the handle once in a while, but hopefully that’s rare. But for some of us, anger comes quickly and often. We have little control over it and then say or do things we later regret.

You may need help with your anger if you often:

  • lose your temper quickly
  • say things you later regret
  • scream or shout at people
  • feel yourself boiling inside 
  • threaten or hit people 
  • hit or smash something  

Anger is a normal human emotion. It can be healthy when it alerts us to problems, motivates us to act, or helps us set boundaries. But when anger becomes too intense, too frequent, or too hard to control, it can harm our relationships, our work, and even our health.

The goal of anger management is not that you “never get angry” or that you suppress emotions. Instead, it’s about learning how to recognise the signs of rising anger, understand its triggers, and choose responses that are constructive, not destructive.

In anger management counselling, you work with a trained professional to understand the patterns behind your anger. Together, you’ll explore what sparks it, how it affects your body and mind, and what tools can help you express yourself more calmly and effectively.

Why Do I Get So Angry?

There are many reasons why anger might feel hard to control. Here are some common causes:

  • Not learning how to express needs clearly – if you didn’t grow up with healthy examples of communication, frustration can build quickly.
  • Growing up in a stressful or unsafe environment, when emotions weren’t acknowledged, you may have learned to hide or suppress feelings until they boiled over.
  • Drugs or alcohol use – these can lower self-control and make anger flare more easily.
  • Underlying stress or mental health concerns – anxiety, depression, or past trauma can all make you more sensitive to triggers.

Counselling helps you get to the root of where your anger comes from, and that is the first step to changing how you respond. 

Our Approach to Anger Management

We offer skilled 1:1 counselling at offices across Sydney and online – to help you manage your anger. Counselling offers you a proven way to manage your anger better. You will learn how to recognise what makes you mad and how to pause before acting. You will also learn to understand your underlying needs and how to make clear statements to ask for what you need. Ultimately, you can get what you want without staying angry and without hurting others.

Associated Counsellors & Psychologists offers one-on-one anger management counselling at over 40 locations across Sydney. Our specialised counsellors and psychologists near you can provide you with the tools to deal with your anger constructively. 

Working with our therapists, you will learn to get a hold of your anger, calm down, and respond in ways that strengthen relationships instead of damaging them.

We all feel angry sometimes – it’s what you do with that anger, and how you control it, that matters. If you want to lead a balanced and fulfilling life, learning to manage anger is an important step.

What to Expect in an Anger Management Session

Sessions are practical, personalised, and collaborative. Your counsellor will help you:

  • Explore your triggers so you can spot anger building before it takes over.
  • Understand the bigger picture—how your environment, relationships, and past experiences contribute to your reactions.
  • Learn practical tools such as breathing techniques, thought reframing, and healthy communication skills you can use straight away.
  • Role-play difficult conversations to practise calmer responses.
  • Help you express anger in positive, productive ways, making your needs clear without staying angry or hurting others.
  • Work at your pace, making gradual changes that feel achievable and sustainable.

You might also be given simple exercises to try between sessions, like keeping an anger log or testing out a relaxation technique, so you can see what works best for you in real life.

How Long Does Anger Management Counselling Take?

The length of counselling depends on your goals and the complexity of your situation. Some people see improvement in 4–8 sessions, while others choose longer-term support to work through deeper patterns or related issues like stress and relationship conflict.

Benefits of Anger Management Counselling

  • Better communication – expressing yourself clearly without aggression.
  • Healthier relationships – reducing conflict and building trust.
  • Improved self-control – responding rather than reacting in the heat of the moment.
  • Lower stress – managing tension before it escalates.

Greater self-awareness – understanding the real drivers behind your anger.

Is Anger Management Right for You?

It might be time to seek help if your anger is:

  • Damaging your relationships.
  • Affecting your job or reputation.
  • Leading to verbal or physical outbursts.
  • Leaving you feeling guilty, ashamed, or out of control.

You don’t have to wait until anger has caused serious harm to get support. Many people find that addressing it early helps prevent bigger problems down the track.

Get started now

If you’re ready to take control of your anger, we can help. Our experienced counsellors provide a safe, supportive space to explore your triggers and build lasting strategies for change. 

Contact us to book your first session and start creating calmer, healthier responses today.

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Quality Matters in Therapy


Choosing the right therapist for couples counselling isn’t just about qualifications. It’s about connection, depth, and real experience.

Our team includes senior psychologists and counsellors who bring empathy, insight, and practical strategies that create lasting change.

We’ve handpicked professionals who are not only highly trained, but also genuinely care about helping people move forward in their relationships.

Our Locations
We have locations throughout Sydney and its surrounds. You can also access counselling through Zoom and Skype.
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St Leonards
Suite 3, Level 4/66 Pacific Highway
St Leonards NSW 2065
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Ryde
Suite 7, 117 North Road
Ryde NSW 2112
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Cronulla
Level 1, 26-32 Ewos Parade
Cronulla NSW 2230
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Gymea
Level 1, 1/100 Gymea Bay Road
Gymea NSW 2227
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Earlwood
Boomerang Ave
Earlwood NSW 2206
T:(02) 8004 9969 View details
Homebush
42 Underwood Road
Homebush NSW 2140
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Glebe
1 Arundel St
Glebe NSW 2037
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Sutherland
Suite 3, 2/16 Boyle St
Sutherland NSW 2232
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Elizabeth Street
418/185 Elizabeth St
Sydney NSW 2000
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Miranda
29 Kiora Road
Miranda NSW 2228
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Surry Hills
302/88 Foveaux St
Surry Hills NSW 2010
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Bondi Junction
404/332 Oxford Street
Bondi Junction NSW 2022
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Parramatta
26 Marion Street
Parramatta NSW 2150
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Castle Hill
Suite 14, 15-17 Terminus St
Castle Hill NSW 2154
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Caringbah
4/20-26 President Ave
Caringbah NSW 2229
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Erina Central Coast
Suite 2, 166A The Entrance Rd
Erina NSW 2250
T:(02) 8004 5170 View details
Dapto
Laver Road
Dapto NSW 2530
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Macquarie Street
504/135-137 Macquarie St
Sydney NSW 2000
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Woollahra
Suite 2, 101-103 Queen St
Woollahra NSW 2025
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Cabramatta West NSW 2166
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Campbelltown
3/167 Queen St
Campbelltown NSW 2650
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Dulwich Hill
Challis Ave
Dulwich Hill NSW 2203
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Enfield (Burwood)
Portland St
Enfield NSW 2136
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Enmore
16 Enmore Rd
Enmore NSW 2042
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Leichhardt
1/122a Norton St
Leichhardt NSW 2040
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Lilyfield
1/358 Catherine St
Lilyfield, NSW 2040
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North Strathfield
Level 1/5 George St
North Strathfield NSW 2137
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Norwest
Suite 20/1 Maitland Place
Norwest NSW 2153
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Baulkham Hills
35 Old Northern Rd
Baulkahm Hills NSW 2153
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Stanhope Gardens
1 View St
Stanhope Gardens NSW 2768
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Beecroft
Karril Ave
Beecroft NSW 2119
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Bella Vista
Q Central Building, Suite 208A, 10 Norbrik Drive
Bella Vista NSW 2153
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Hornsby
202/16 Hunter St
Hornsby NSW 2077
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Northbridge
343 Sailors Bay Rd
Northbridge NSW 2063
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North Sydney
2/83 Walker St
North Sydney NSW 2060
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Chatswood
54/47 Neridah St
Chatswood NSW 2067
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Mosman
The Cottage, 44 Avenue Road
Mosman NSW 2088
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Cremorne
4/350 Military Rd
Cremorne NSW 2090
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Lane Cove
221 Longueville Rd
Lane Cove NSW 2066
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Narrabeen
9/12 Rickard Rd
North Narrabeen NSW 2101
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Dee Why (Narraweena)
Mundara Place
Narraweena NSW 2099
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Kogarah
Suite 5.01, Level 5, 15 Kensington Street
Kogarah NSW 2217
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Gosford
54 Hills St
North Gosford NSW 2250
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North Ryde
Suite 9, 3 Julius Avenue
North Ryde NSW 2113
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Getting Started With Therapy

Choose a Therapist

We'll speak to you and help you find the best therapist for your issues (yes, we're local and real people!). We'll ask about what's going for you, you're location and availability. We'll then describe some counsellors for you to choose from.

No Referral Needed

You can get started without a referral. If you do have Mental Health care plan from your GP, you may be eligible for a Medicare rebate. Give us a call and we'll run you through the options and how it all works.

Costs and Rebates

Prices vary depending on who you choose to see. Medicare Rebates and private health rebates may also apply. You can read about those in the FAQs at the bottom of this page.

Couples Counselling Therapy Reviews

I don’t usually write reviews but I was so impressed with Counselling Sydney I had to. They took such great care of my husband and me and really made us feel calmer about this whole process during the phone call. I'm confident they will find us the right counsellor. Great effort!

Tyson B April 6, 2022

I can’t lie, I was a bit sceptical when my boyfriend suggested we use Counselling Sydney to find ourselves a therapist. They proved me wrong however and were so fast in getting back to us! Props to their customer service team for truly listening to what we needed!

Esther H April 6, 2022

Counselling Sydney is great if you want to save yourself hours of research finding a therapist that fits you best. They are super-efficient with their questioning and require minimal paperwork, yet I feel confident the counsellor they recommended to my wife and me is very suitable.

Tobias D April 6, 2022

My husband and I both decided our marriage was in dire need of counselling. We wanted a therapist close by to our house. Counselling Sydney was able to provide us with some great counsellors within our area after only a short phone call. They were super professional and very accommodating to our needs and we will definitely be recommending them to others.

Carlos K April 6, 2022

Counselling Sydney’s team went above and beyond for my husband and me and made what could have been an awkward experience, super smooth. One phone call and form later and our first appointment was today. Thanks!.

Suzie M April 6, 2022

I have had some bad experiences finding counsellors in the past so I wanted to make sure the counsellor I found for my girlfriend and I was good the first time around. Counsellors Sydney asked a few key questions and was able to find us a suitable candidate that totally fit the bill. Very impressed with the attention to detail of this team.

Jaida N April 6, 2022

My wife wanted to change counsellors but neither of us had the energy to actually spend time looking for a counsellor so it was great when we found Counselling Sydney. They found us plenty of options and we didn’t have to take more than an hour out of our day to explain what we needed. Great Job.

Darryl B April 6, 2022

My girlfriend put it to me to find us a couples counsellor but I know nothing about this stuff. An internet search later, Counselling Sydney gave me a call to ask a few questions, sent us a form to fill out and had us options within days. Really speedy process, and super easy to understand.

Geordie K April 6, 2022

My husband and I came across Counselling Sydney when doing our own research for a counsellor and thought we would give them a try. They are super-efficient both in their questioning and time management and we were booked into our first session within the week. The customer service team really goes above and beyond!

Kathrin L April 6, 2022

My partner and I just moved to Sydney and needed a new relationship counsellor to cope with all the changes moving brought. A friend recommended we try using Counselling Sydney to speed up the process. One phone call and a form was all they needed from us and it saved us hours of doing our own research. They found us plenty of great recommendations and supported us through the entire process, we felt very supported.

Elanora W April 6, 2022

Marriage counselling may have helped save my marriage if we'd gotten it, but we didn't. We rang them for "post-marriage counselling" in hopes it will make co-parenting easier and that we might actually be able to be friends again. Associated Counsellors put us in touch with a counsellor who has a great track record with this sort of counselling. Only giving four stars because we haven't had our first session yet.

Mike H. December 9, 2021

Lockdown has been tough and my husband and I decided to get ahead of some problems. Things that we used to just let through to the keeper were blocking us. Spoke to someone at Associated Counselling Sydney who made me feel really good about reaching out before things got worse. They put us in touch with someone wo I really think can help us. Fingers crossed we get a good result.

Jasmine H. December 9, 2021

We didn't want a divorce, but didn't want to stay together fighting all the time. When I explained this to ACS they quickly gave me confidence that they would be able to provide a counsellor who could help. I was really relieved to hear that our kind of bickering is actually pretty common for couples. We opted to see a counsellor a few suburbs over so as to not bump into anyone from our children's school in the waiting room.

Hermione K. December 9, 2021

I rang ACS to speak to someone about anger management counselling and after talking with them, I realised marriage counselling would be a logical part of the process too. I am going to do 6 sessions of anger counselling, with the view to starting marriage counselling after that.

Frank O. December 9, 2021

We found our marriage counsellor through this site. We had some specific things we needed help working through and the rep from the site put us in touch with therapists who really were specialists in their area.

Nellie F. December 9, 2021

For reasons of our own, my husband and I decided to get marriage counselling. We both rang ACS and were happy with the process and started with our new counseller next week.

Jane C. December 9, 2021

Frequently Asked Questions About Anger Management

Some people benefit from a short, structured program over a few weeks, while others choose ongoing sessions to address deeper patterns and related issues.

Yes. Online sessions via secure video are a practical option and can be just as effective as in-person counselling.

Anger management can be a specific program or part of broader counselling. While it focuses on controlling anger, therapy may also explore deeper emotional issues or past experiences.

Look for registered psychologists or counsellors who have specific training in Anger Management. In Australia, the Australian Psychological Society and the Australian Register of Counsellors and Psychotherapists both have directories to help you find qualified practitioners.

At Associated Counsellors and Psychologists, our matching service will connect you with the right anger management counsellor for you. 

Your GP can also refer you to a counsellor and, in some cases, arrange a Medicare rebate.

Anyone who feels their anger is affecting their relationships, work, or wellbeing can benefit—whether that’s someone with occasional explosive episodes or someone who experiences simmering, ongoing irritation.

It’s useful for relationship conflict, workplace stress, parenting challenges, road rage, past trauma, and any situation where intense anger interferes with your life.

It teaches you to spot your triggers, notice early warning signs, and choose calmer, more constructive responses. Over time, these skills become habits that help you stay in control.

Speak to a Psychologist

Let us answer your questions and help you choose from a range of Psychologists, Counsellors and Relationship Therapists, near you.