Jesse’s Story
Jesse was a mature age student at a tertiary design college. He had a passion for playing video games and he was going to college to become a graphic designer specializing in the development of video games. Shy and introverted, Jesse often found himself anxious when it came to attending classes with a group of students he did not know and he would have preferred to avoid social interactions altogether.
One of the ways that Jesse found he could cope with his anxiety was to smoke a joint before attending class. Not only did he feel less anxiety, but he felt he was more creative and outgoing. Soon, in order to cope with the need to go to classes five days a week, he was smoking several joints a day, including first thing in the morning. Not only was he anxiety-free, but his money was disappearing quickly because he was spending so much money every week on regular deliveries of pot to his apartment. He was also gaining weight astronomically, because his smoking was interfering with his ability to feel satiated and he was eating more than he had ever before. (This article is electronically protected – Copyright © Associated Counsellors & Psychologists Sydney PTY LTD)
When his girlfriend realised just how much Jesse was smoking every day, she became extremely concerned. She knew his family had a history of being easily addicted to different drugs and she was desperately afraid Jesse was falling into the same pattern. No matter how much she insisted, he continued to find reasons as to why he could not stop. It helped him with school, he said, it helped him feel comfortable around other people, he enjoyed it, it helped him eat, he said. No matter what she said to him, he always had an excuse. Finally, his girlfriend was no longer able to tolerant his addiction and threatened to leave him if he didn’t seek help for his behaviour. Scared of losing the only woman who had been able to understand him and his moods, Jesse made contact with a professional counsellor to find out how they could help him with his pot addiction.