How CBT Can Help You
Do you ever feel like your mind just won’t switch off? Maybe you catch yourself replaying the same worries, avoiding situations you wish you could handle, or reacting in ways you later regret.
It can be exhausting and can leave you feeling stuck in cycles you don’t know how to break.
But the good news is, you don’t have to stay stuck.
Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT) gives you practical tools to understand and change the patterns between your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Even small shifts in the way you think can transform how you feel and the choices you make and open the door to a calmer, more balanced, and more fulfilling life.
You might find CBT especially helpful if you often:
- Struggle with anxiety or low mood.
- Avoid situations because of fear or worry.
- Have constant negative thoughts about yourself or the future.
- Find it hard to break habits that aren’t serving you.
- Feel stuck in the same emotional patterns, no matter what you try.
In CBT, you work with your counsellor as a team to identify what keeps you stuck, explore new ways of looking at things, and try out healthier ways of responding.
The idea is simple but powerful: When you change the way you think about a situation, you often change how you feel and how you respond.
What Issues Can CBT Help With?
CBT is effective for many mental health conditions and everyday challenges, including:
- Anxiety disorders – generalised anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks, phobias
- Depression – mild to moderate depression, low mood
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Eating disorders – such as bulimia and binge eating disorder
- Sleep problems – including insomnia
- Stress management – work stress, relationship stress, life transitions
- Chronic pain and some medical conditions where stress makes symptoms worse.
CBT can also be helpful even if you’re not experiencing a specific diagnosis. It’s often used to improve self-confidence, communication skills, or coping strategies.
How CBT Works
The way we think about something influences how we feel, which then affects what we do. For example:
- You have the thought: “I’m going to embarrass myself in this meeting.”
- This leads to feelings of anxiety and tension.
- You decide to avoid speaking up, which might bring short-term relief but reinforces the fear for next time.
In CBT, you learn to spot these patterns, question them, and experiment with new ways of responding.
Recognising Unhelpful Thinking
We all have mental shortcuts that aren’t always accurate. Some common examples include:
- All-or-nothing thinking – seeing situations as completely good or bad.
- Catastrophising – expecting the worst possible outcome.
- Mind-reading – assuming you know what others are thinking.
- Over-generalising – believing one bad experience means all future ones will be bad.
Reframing Your Thoughts
Once you start noticing these patterns, your therapist will help you replace them with more balanced and realistic ways of thinking. This might involve asking:
- “What’s the evidence for and against this thought?”
- “How would I view this if it happened to someone I care about?”
- “Is there a more helpful way of looking at this situation?”
Over time, these mental shifts can change how you feel and act.
Changing Behaviour
In CBT, you don’t just learn to think differently; you learn to do differently.
You might practise gradually facing situations you’ve been avoiding, scheduling enjoyable activities to lift your mood, or learning relaxation and mindfulness skills.
These practical steps can make a big difference, often faster than people expect.
What to Expect in a CBT Session
- Goal setting – You and your counsellor agree on what you want to work on.
- Review – You check in on progress since the last session.
- Learning and practice – Your therapist introduces tools or exercises.
- Homework – You practise new skills between sessions.
- Feedback – You reflect together on what’s working and what needs adjusting.
Sessions are active and collaborative. You won’t just talk. You’ll be given practical ways to work on your goals.
How Long Does CBT Take?
CBT is usually short-term. Many people start to see improvement after 6 to 12 sessions, while more complex situations might require 20 sessions or more.
Appointments typically last 45–60 minutes and are held weekly or fortnightly. Some people choose to have occasional “booster” sessions once counselling ends to keep their progress on track.
Benefits of CBT
The appeal of CBT lies in its practical nature. It’s not just talking—it’s learning skills you can use for life.
The structure makes it easier to track progress, and the strategies are flexible enough to be used on your own once counselling finishes.
Because it’s backed by extensive research, CBT is often a first choice for both counsellors and clients looking for effective, time-limited treatment.